Being a new dad is exciting because you are bringing home a little bundle of joy. Of course, you want to establish a healthy relationship with your child as they grow older, which you can start forming when they are just a baby. Use the following ideas to bond with your baby as a new dad.
Start Interacting Early
Start interacting with your baby as soon as possible, even when they are just a few hours old. Talking to your baby allows them to become more familiar with your voice. Your baby may still be developing their eyesight, but you still want to make eye contact when speaking to them. An intimate connection within the first few hours can set the building blocks for a strong bond over the years.
Sing To Your Baby
You can also sing to your baby. Do not be afraid to sing songs such as “Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star” or “Rock-A-Bye Baby,” or even a song you heard on the radio that reminds you of your little one. One idea is to start singing to your baby while they are in the womb, and this can become your special song throughout the years. Your little one may even request their special song when they are older.
Hugs and Cuddles
There are many benefits of skin to skin with your newborn. You are releasing oxytocin and reducing stress because they are feeling love and affection, and they feel comfortable and secure with their dad. Giving them plenty of hugs, kisses and cuddles can help them feel nurtured. You can also snuggle with your baby at naptime, and you can invest in a wearable carrier for when you are on the go.
Play Games
Of course, you can never go wrong with playing games with your baby. Start with peek-a-boo and sing-along songs such as “The Wheels On The Bus.” As they grow older, you can add toys such as hand puppets and building blocks. Make playtime a part of your routine, as this is a special time for both of you, and watch how excited they are to play with you as they grow older.
Have A Chat
You already know that talking to your baby from day one is an important part of interacting with them. It is important to continue chatting with them as they grow older. What may seem like a simple afternoon chat can help them develop their own vocabulary as they become vocal. As your baby grows into a vocal toddler and school-age child, they are going to be encouraged to talk to you as well.
Start A Routine
Now, the best way to ensure you are getting daily interaction with your child is to make it a part of your routine. Your routine may include spending time in the living room so your partner can sleep in, going on an afternoon walk or reading a bedtime story.
As a new dad, finding ways to bond with your baby is the first step to creating a healthy relationship with your little one.